Does Anyone Have Any Advice I am confused About My Situation With Rahi?
Does everyone remember the South Asian guy Rahi that I meet at the meetup.com movie event last year?
I met Rahi in November 2009 and we saw the Chris Rock documentary Good Hair. Next, in December 2009 we saw the action flick Ninja Assassin. I will admit, I thought Ninja Assassin wasn’t that great a movie but I thought Rahi was good company. After we saw Ninja Assassin Rahi and I kind of lost contact.
Well, out of the blue Rahi contacted me by e-mail two months ago in late August asking me how I was doing. Rahi wanted to know if I was interested in watching some movies together.
I decided to ask Rahi if he is gay, straight, or bisexual in an e-mail. Rahi responded that he is “straight and mesmerized by the ladies.” I let Rahi know that I am openly gay. He said that “doesn’t change his opinion of me or anything.”
So for the past month we basically have been sending e-mail messages to each other trying to figure out when we are going to see a movie.
I responded to Rahi letting him know that I was interested in catching a movie. Now fast forward to September 2010, Rahi tells me he likes documentaries and I let him know I read an article in NOW Magazine about a new documentary called Waiting For Superman.
Over a week ago, I sent Rahi an e-mail asking him when his schedule was free and I also provided my phone number so he can contact me. I did not receive a response.
I don’t understand what happened? If Rahi wants to become my friend why would he say he wanted to see a documentary and then not reply to my message? I mean, can it be that hard for Rahi to simply move his fingers and respond to my e-mail? I only sent Rahi one e-mail stating that here is my phone number and let me know if he wanted to see the documentary Waiting For Superman.
What I find odd is this, Rahi is the one that contacted me out of the blue in August 2010 saying he wanted to become friends and watch movies together. So why did Rahi disappear? Has anyone ever heard of this before? Does anyone have any advice I appreciate it.
Sincerely
Orville
Gayblackcanada 
This guy Rahi sounds a bit unreliable and flaky. Sounds like he has some issues with developing a friendship with you. And I’m still not sure what his true sexuality is, but regardless, he needs to be more responsive and not just contact you when it’s convenient for him. But this is coming from me, someone who has little patience for those ‘fair weather’ friends who can turn their backs on you at any given moment. So bottom line, Rahi seems like someone you don’t want to become emotionally invested with. It’ll just lead to disappointment.