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Miami Times Article: Queer Latin Star Ricky Martin’s Memoir To Be Released November 2010!

Ricky Martin Announces Release of His Memoir, November 2

By Paul Torres, Thu., Aug. 19 2010 @ 1:45PM
Categories: News
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Miami’s most famous Puerto Rican resident (and one of the most famous Puerto Ricans in the world) is poised to make a foray from the entertainment world into the literary realm. It seems that pop phenom Ricky Martin has decided to put to paper his life experiences.

Publisher Celebra, an imprint of Penguin Group that focuses on nonfiction by Latino celebrities like Perez Hilton and the Estefans, has just announced plans to release the singer’s memoir on November 2. The book will be simultaneously released in both English and Spanish, with the former titled Me and the latter, Yo.

According to the publisher, the Grammy-winning superstar will open up in this autobiography about everything from his childhood to his start in the Latin boy band Menudo to his rise to solo prominence and leap to the A-list.

The typically private celeb will even get personal, discussing his decision to become a father and coming to terms with his sexuality.

In a release on the title, Martin was quoted, “Writing this book allowed me to explore the different paths and experiences that have led me to be who I am today… and I wanted to share my sense of discovery.”

Article: European Countries In Financial Crisis Worse Than The United States.

Top 6 most indebted countries (and why)

by Michael Sanibel, Investopedia.com
Tuesday, August 17, 2010

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The recent financial  crisis and recession have been a worldwide occurrence. The events in the United States since 2008 have garnered most of the headlines because the U. S. has the world’s largest economy and national debt, but the reality is that many countries in Europe are in worse financial shape and continue to deteriorate.

There are various ways to rank indebtedness, such as debt per capita and deficit or debt as a function of gross domestic product (GDP). This ranking is based on cumulative debt as a percentage of GDP and is limited to an analysis of the 25 largest economies. It is further limited to “external” debt, which is the portion of the national debt that is owed only to foreign creditors. The source for the debt and GDP amounts is the Central Intelligence Agency World Factbook most recent numbers from mid to late 2009.

1. Ireland – Debt/GDP: 997%
The days of Ireland enjoying one of the fastest growing economies in Europe are over, at least for now. The story is all too familiar, as easy credit fueled a housing bubble that burst and damaged consumer confidence.

After recording budget surpluses in the prior two years, the economy reversed course in 2009 and contracted 7%. This eroded tax revenues and sent the annual deficit to a record 14.3% of GDP. The European Union set a target for Ireland to reduce that figure to 3% by 2014, but the International Monetary Fund has indicated that the deadline will be missed. Moody’s has subsequently lowered its bond rating.

2. Netherlands – Debt/GDP: 467%
The national debt in the Netherlands has reached record levels as a result of the world financial crisis and recession. Much of the added burden was caused by significant government support for the country’s banking sector. The increase in debt per capita is second only to that experienced in Ireland.

The Netherlands joined the eurozone with a hard guilder a decade ago, but its current debt would likely disqualify it for membership.

3. United Kingdom – Debt/GDP: 409%
Investment bank Morgan Stanley fears that Great Britain could face a severe debt crisis in the near future if it continues down its current path. According to the bank’s report, this is a case of not putting aside sufficient reserves when the economy was sound. During the peak of the boom, it still ran a budget deficit of 3% of GDP when other European countries were running surpluses exceeding 2%.

Like many other countries, Britain bought time during the financial crisis by implementing massive fiscal stimulus and forcing the public to fund losses in the private sector. Without the restoration of fiscal credibility, there is a significant danger of a government bond sell-off, pound weakness and a flight of capital.

4. Switzerland – Debt/GDP: 273%
Generally regarded as having one of the world’s most stable economies, Switzerland has taken its budget crisis seriously. When the national debt began to escalate in the last decade, the Swiss voted to approve a constitutional amendment forcing the government to balance expenses and revenue during each economic cycle. While annual deficits may still occur, this has instilled discipline in the process and lowered the country’s borrowing costs as investors rushed to safety.

This so-called “debt brake” was implemented in response to increasing debt stemming from a slowdown in economic growth. Deficits climbed as spending rose for unemployment benefits and tax revenues declined. While government expenditures were cut across the board, rising revenues have not been sufficient to pay down the incurred debt.

5. Portugal – Debt/GDP: 228%
With last year’s deficit coming in at 9.4% of GDP, the Portuguese government has instituted a growth and austerity program with the objective of reducing that number to 2.8% by 2013. These measures have sparked strikes in the public sector including postal and transportation services. Those events have been further propelled by unemployment above 10%, the worst in 40 years.

The root problem has been low productivity and virtually no economic growth in the past few years. Portugal ranks last in GDP growth among countries that adopted the euro as a common currency. Demand for goods and services has stalled, along with innovation and business momentum. In addition, Portugal’s exports have been undercut by cheap labor in countries such as China. (For related reading, see The Economics Of Labor Mobility.)

6. Austria – Debt/GDP: 214%
The recession and government assistance to banks have contributed to the budget crisis in Austria. The finance minister has rejected the notion of higher taxes in favor of administrative reforms to cut spending. He has predicted that the annual deficit would grow from 3.5% to 4.7% of GDP between 2010 and 2012 before starting to decline. That peak would be the third-highest since 1976 when such data were first recorded.

Rising unemployment has resulted in increased expenditures for unemployment compensation and other government benefits. In addition to the reduced payrolls, tax reforms have driven down overall tax revenues.

The Bottom Line
While the U.S. and Canada have large economies, their respective debt-to-GDP ratios are 93% and 62%. The U.S. gets most of the attention because of the size of the numbers that comprise the ratio – $13.5 trillion debt (June 2009) and $14.4 trillion GDP (2009 estimate).

By comparison, China and India have ratios of 7% and 20% respectively. Their economic growth rates have also exceeded the western nations over the past few years, thereby keeping their debt ratios relatively low. If the western nations don’t implement policies to reduce their debts, they run the risk of jeopardizing future economic growth and prosperity.

Loveshack.Org Dating Advice: Understanding The Meaning Of No Contact.

No Contact Q&A (for you LS newbies)

Q. What is no contact.
A. No contact is just that. It’s breaking all ties to your ex.

Q. What is no contact for?
A. No contact is meant as the quickest means for you to heal.

Q. If I implement NC will I get my ex back?
A. Probably not, but that’s not what NC is meant for. Yes, absence makes the heart grow fonder, but if you’re banking on NC as a way to manipulate your ex back into your life you are in for a rude awakening.

Q. What should I be doing to implement NC?
A. Absolutely cutting all ties to your ex. That means no calls, emails, text/sms, IM’s – nothing. You need to vanish completely from their life and in the process, make them disappear from yours. In addition, get rid of their phone number, emails and email address, remove all the pictures/photos/memories/gifts. Anything that reminds you of the ex should be boxed up and put in a safe place out of daily view and easy reach.

Q. What should I be doing during NC?
A. First off, allow the grieving process to happen naturally. You need to grieve a loss, but don’t dwell on it. Hang out with your friends, immerse yourself in a new hobby and start working out. Working out is especially useful because not only does it release endorphins which help make you feel better but you’ll start looking your best which will help you attract someone new. If you need Counseling, by all means go.

Q. I don’t want to implement NC because I don’t want to lose him/her.
A. Unfortunately you already have. Clinging on to them or the hope you’ll get them back will only keep you down longer. Additionally, the natural reaction of any Ex when you cling on to them is for them to literally spring in the other direction. If you do have any chance of a reconciliation, your best bet is to leave them alone and forget about them.

Q. My ex wants to be friends, is this a good idea?
A. No, not if you are still in love with them. For the most part Ex’s will keep you as a friend so they have a ‘back up plan’ in case things fail with the new love of their life. Ask yourself if you’re happy being #2 in someone’s life. If so, more power to you. But if you respect yourself and have healthy self-esteem you’ll never settle for being left hanging on a string. All it will do is keep you clinging to the false hope of getting back with your ex, keep you down in the dumps much longer than you should be and ruin any chance you have of meeting someone new. So hey, if you want to be miserable, go ahead and be good buddies with your ex.

Q. I can’t resist the urge to contact my ex! What should I do??
A. If you’ve deleted all their contact info yet still remember how to reach them, call a friend instead. Go work out. Take a bike ride. Go for a jog. Do something to occupy your mind. Get out, don’t sit around the house pining for your Ex. Rest assured they are not sitting around with their new love wondering why you aren’t calling them.

Q. How long should I wait to contact my ex.
A. Never be the first to contact your ex. If you need something back, ask a friend to go get it for you. If you have kids together, NC is almost impossible. The best thing to do is keep whatever contact you must have to a minimum. Don’t argue with them, don’t ask for a second chance, don’t beg them to take you back. Just be very polite and business-like. You thank yourself later for being the bigger person. Additionally the best way to make someone see they’re being an a**hole is to not be one in retaliation. Let them vent and just be quiet. Sooner, rather than later, it’ll hit them that they’re being absolutely childish and you’ll come out smelling like a rose.

Q. I’ve been on NC for some time and my Ex just contacted me, what do I do?
A. The question is why are they contacting you? If it’s just to get something back, box up their stuff and have a friend give it to them. No need to reply. No matter what, don’t contact them back right away. Don’t answer if they call. Show them you have a life and you don’t need them in it. Yes, it’s kind of a game but a necessary evil. I know a lot of people might disagree with me on this, but I’m a skeptic. I want to know why the ex is contacting me. If they are having doubts, they will make it clear. If you respond to them, be sure to take a day or two to do so. This will give you time to think clearly about what you want to say. When you reply, make sure that it’s polite and to the point. Don’t make any small talk. Don’t bring up the past (big no no). Don’t volunteer any information about yourself. Be the first to end the conversation. Do be happy, do smile inside (CBT) and know that you’ll be fine. Trust me, if your ex wants you back nothing will stop them from getting in touch with you. And this is ideally what you want. You want them to initiate the contact because it will be their heart that has changed.

Q. What happens if I break NC?
A. You’ll end up right back to square one and have to start all over. Don’t believe me? Read through some of the ‘I broke NC’ threads. Trust me, while you are on NC with them and they are with someone else, you don’t want to know how they are doing. You don’t want to hear how happy they are. As “No Foolin” says, you can’t handle what they have to say.

Q. What if I see them in public?
A. Read No Foolin’s thread on NC (in my signature file). Bottom line, avoid contact with them at all cost. If you can’t, just be polite and smile and wave if they wave at you. If they want to talk, remember the rule. No small talk, no information. You’re doing great without them, even if you aren’t.

Q. What if my Ex never contacts me?
A. Then it was never meant to be. Consider yourself lucky and smart enough to realize the sooner you implemented NC and got on with your life the sooner you can meet the right person for you. That’s really what this whole no contact deal is all about.

Realize that none of us are immune to heartbreak. Consider each relationship as a lesson life teaches us that we carry on to the next relationship. What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger. That’s what NC does. It allows you to reflect on your past mistakes and grow as a person. Each time you fail in a relationship you gain invaluable knowledge that will aid you in the next.

Men say women are like buses, there is always another one coming around the corner. It’s the same for women too. There will be someone else, I guarantee you that. The sooner you cut ties with the ex, healed yourself up, improved where you can and have imbedded the lessons of your past the better off you’ll be for someone else.

Above all, never tell yourself “I’m not good enough, no one loves me, blah blah blah.” That’s a self-defeatist attitude and kills your confidence and self-esteem. You are plenty good enough and someone will love you. You just have to be happy with who you are. Be the best you you can be.

Every step forward you make is one step closer to meeting the person of your dreams. It will likely happen as soon as you have decided you respect yourself enough to take back your personal power. The power you give to your Ex every moment you spend thinking about them, wishing they would call or clinging on to them. Take back control of your life by vowing to move on. To accept what has happened. To let go compeltely.

To be free to love again.

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