Jesse James Cheated On Sandra Bullock Because They Are From Different Classes & Different Worlds.

Although Academy Award winning actress Sandra Bullock has received an avalanche of sympathy from the masses, the truth is she does not deserve the public’s sympathy.

The real reason Jesse James and Sandra Bullock’s marriage is on the rocks is due to  class  and not  infidelity.

It is obvious to discern, that Bullock and James are from different worlds. Sometimes love is not enough, the truth is class still matters.

Jesse James he is being constructed as a man who had it all but maybe he didn’t have it all?

Maybe, James felt claustrophobic?

According to media reports, Jesse James mistress Michelle McGee she was paid $30,000 dollars by American tabloid magazine “In Touch Weekly.”

McGee she says she had sex with Jesse James while Sandra Bullock was filming “The Blind Side” last year.

Since fifty percent of heterosexual marriages end in divorce, the fact Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock is hardly surprising.

The surprise is, the fact that this sex scandal proves nobody can really “have it all.“

Yes, Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock but he was never a part of Sandra Bullock’s A list Hollywood world anyway. Bullock is an A list international Hollywood superstar she belongs to a very  privileged world.

Hollywood A list actresses have stylists, personal trainers, nutritionists, personal assistants, publicists, they have an entourage a team that work to make the actress look “perfect”.  Unfortunately, ordinary women aspire to “be” just like Sandra Bullock they see her in designer gowns with her fit toned body dreaming they had her “Hollywood life.” Instead of valuing their own lives, some women dream they can be “Sandra Bullock.”

Bullock is at the top of her profession and this must have been very emasculating for Jesse James. Bullock campaigned hard for her best actress Oscar she wanted to win at all costs. Jesse James he was always in Sandra Bullock’s shadow and he felt less than a real man.

Sandra Bullock she has  more money, more power, and more fame than  Jesse James will ever have. We are supposed to be in this post feminist world where women and men are equal.

However, some men still believe they should be the “breadwinner” and not be in the “back seat” to their wives or girlfriends.

I am not excusing James behaviour, but I can understand it. Jesse James has a reality TV show, he likes motorcycles, he is from a lower class, than Sandra Bullock. Bullock probably wanted some “excitement” in her life and she decided to marry James. Well, James former wife is a porn star and Bullock smashed his previous marriage. Bullock waited until she reached her forties to get married.

Of course, nobody mentions the fact that Sandra Bullock was in a bitter custody dispute with James and his former wife porn star  Janine Lindemulder. James is the ultimate bad boy he has the smug expression on his face, the tattoos, the dirty track record with trashy women.

Meanwhile, Sandra Bullock she is the opposite, she is America’s “aging sweetheart”. A lot of women like Bullock because they identify with her. Bullock is attractive, but she is not a sultry alluring woman. Sandra Bullock she is not a  stunning beauty like Charlize Theron or Halle Berry.

The female film audience are not threatened by Sandra Bullock that’s part of the reason why she is so successful. The common women can identify with Sandra Bullock they believe she can be their girlfriend, pal, or acquaintance. Sandra Bullock’s marketing strategy is very effective her “brand” is the fact she presents her self as an “ordinary woman” despite her “extraordinary” success, celebrity status, and wealth.

Maybe Sandra Bullock really is a “down to earth” kind of woman? Or perhaps, this is just a part of Sandra Bullock’s formula, to connect with the female movie audience?

Berry and Theron are incredibly beautiful women and Sandra Bullock is attractive but she crafted the persona that she just the girl next door that made it in Hollywood. Sandra Bullock’s image is she is self deprecating, funny, intelligent, and charming.

Bullock revived her  career with two blockbuster hits in 2009 the “Proposal” and “The Blind Side”. Bullock is the first woman ever in Hollywood history to headline a movie all by herself that grossed over $200 million dollars.

The reason Sandra Bullock won the Oscar for best actress wasn’t because of her acting talent, it was because she is very respected in Hollywood. Bullock’s shallow victory is very similar to Julia Robert’s shallow victory for the overrated “Erin Brockovich.”

The Academy decided to cement Bullock’s A list status by rewarding her with the Oscar. Did Sandra Bullock deserve the Oscar for “The Blind Side?” Of course not!

Meryl Streep, Gabourey Sidibe, and Carey Mulligan performances were superior to Sandra Bullock’s.  Bullock is  the first actress to win the best actress Oscar and the razzie award in the same year for worst actress for her dreadful performance in the film “All About Steve.”

Since Jesse James is a  bad boy, he probably felt very uncomfortable hanging out at all those Hollywood parties with Bullock and all her A list friends. Bullock probably didn’t see it, or didn’t want to see it but James did.

James probably realized he really did not fit into Bullock’s  A list world so subconsciously he decided to get angry and get back at Sandra. James became angry that he was living in a fish bowl that he could not be himself.

Jesse James just gravitated back to the  world he is most comfortable with the trashy porn stars and lower class women.  James probably felt very intimidated and terrified  by Sandra Bullock`s success.

Sandra Bullock built her fortune by perpetuating the myth that women across the world can one day “meet” the perfect man. The romantic comedies are all about this mythical happy heterosexual ending.

The demise of Sandra Bullock’s marriage proves “nobody” really has the “perfect” life just  like the Hollywood romantic comedies.

The reason people love romantic comedies is because we can escape from our mundane boring  lives and become a part of the dream factory. The public supports the romantic comedy genre because we want to believe that one day we will meet our prince charming that he will be perfect and we will ride into the sunset.

Whether people want to admit it or not, pop culture is a part of our lives. The tabloids make millions of dollars a year because millions of people live their dreams vicariously through the lives of Hollywood celebrities like Sandra Bullock. Except, Sandra Bullock she was supposed to be different, she’s not a snob, or bitch, or a drug addict she’s a “normal” person.

We  love Sandra Bullock because we watch her romantic comedies and we can  escape from our problems and dream we will meet the perfect man who will sweep us off our feet.

The romantic comedies all have the happy ending, except in the real life things don’t always end that way. Sometimes we get the guy, or we get the guy we think is

good, and we still get burned.

Sometimes real life sucks and the real life for Sandra Bullock sucks right now.

Sandra Bullock joins the list of all the A list  best actress Oscar winners burned by the Oscar curse.

Here is the Best Actress Oscar Curse hit list:

1997 Helen Hunt won the Oscar for “As Good As It Gets” she divorced her husband Hank Azaria.

2000 Julia Roberts scored an Academy Award for the film “Erin Brockovich” but her romance with Benjamin Bratt fizzled.

2002 Halle Berry won for her performance in “Monster’s Ball” she soon divorced singer Eric Benet.

2003 Charlize Theron won the Oscar for her breakthrough performance in “Monster“ her romance with Stuart Townsend ended this year.

2005 Hilary Swank she won her second Academy Award for “Million Dollar Baby” her marriage failed with Chad Lowe.

2006 Reese Witherspoon won an Oscar for her performance in “Walk The Line” her husband Ryan Phillippe was jealous and their marriage ended.

2009 Kate Winslet won an Academy Award for her performance in “The Reader” her marriage is on the rocks with director Sam Mendes.

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