I Thought Rahi Was A Nice Guy But I Think I Was Wrong.

I thought Rahi was a nice guy but now I just think he is selfish. For example, two weeks ago I saw the horrible Ninja Assassin film with him. I didn’t want to see Ninja Assassin but since Rahi wanted to see the movie I did.

I thought  “well I will try to be nice since Rahi really wants to see this movie I will see it.”

I hated Ninja Assassin that film  was so violent! I believe in reciprocity, two weeks ago I saw the horrible Ninja Assassin then I think it would have been “nice” if he agreed to see a movie I want to see. I am telling myself ” I only met  Rahi a few times and I’m just going to leave him alone”.

My viewpoint is, I believe  Rahi is very  selfish.

I went to see the movie because Rahi wanted to see it. I decided I am not going to respond to Rahi’s e-mail he sent me this morning. How can I possibly respond to Rahi’s message? I won’t!

At this point, I don’t care whether Rahi is straight, gay, or bisexual. All I will say is, two weeks ago Rahi certainly went overboard in trying to impress me.

Rahi picks me up, drives me home after we saw Ninja Assassin two weeks ago. He takes me out buys me something to eat.  Rahi told me two weeks ago to “keep in touch”.

However, my opinion is Rahi  is selfish he only cares about his “needs” and what “he wants”.

Whenever I see a movie with someone I will see a film even if I really don’t want to see it. The reason I do this is because I am sensitive to another person’s feelings.

I decided to take Eileen’s advice and I contacted Rahi on Tuesday. I wanted to know if he was wanted to see the Princess & the Frog because I WANTED to see this film. After all, I saw Ninja Assassin with Rahi. Well here is what Rahi said.

I contact Rahi via e-mail yesterday and he immediately responded:

Here is the message from Wednesday December 16th 2009:

Hey Orville,

I’m doing well thanks. How’re things at your end? Has your winter holidays started yet?

Not free this weekend, by I’ll be off work starting next Tuesday until January 04, 2009. We can definitely meet up.

I watched “A Single Man” last night with a coworker. It was about a gay man grieving the loss of his partner. It was shot well and the acting was superb. But…, it was bit of a downer movie. Have you watched anything lately?

Peace and chat later!

Rahi

I thought “this is interesting Rahi saw a movie about a gay man losing his partner. ” Maybe Rahi isn’t straight after all or maybe Rahi is open minded? The point is I will NEVER go through this situation again. If I am interested in a man I got to know for sure he is gay or at least bisexual. I don’t like this wondering or second guessing myself. I admit I think I jumped to conclusions and I guess I was wrong about Rahi.

Here is Rahi’s message from this morning December 17th 2009:

Cool! Enjoy Precious. A couple people I know watched it and they actually liked it.

I’m not too much into Disney 2D cartoons. The Princess and the Frog looks interesting, but I’ll pass on it.

Okay Orville, have a good one. Talk to you later,

Rahi

I am not responding to Rahi’s message I think the line “but I’ll pass on it” is very rude. After all, I saw Ninja Assassin and yet he refuses to see a movie I want to see.

I just feel Rahi is not being very nice at all. I don’t want to get to know Rahi now because he does come across as being selfish he ONLY wants things to go his way or it’s the highway. I don’t like this at all. I believe a nice person WOULD see a movie they really don’t want to see if someone WANTED to see the film. I just decided to delete Rahi’s e-mail messages and I have deleted his phone number from my phone.