Do You Believe Bisexuality Exists?

The topic of bisexuality is  a controversial issue because some straight and gay people do not believe bisexuality exists.  I don’t agree with this Kinsey scale that states 1 in 10 people are gay or lesbian.  I believe life is a bit more complicated than that. I don’t know the true number but I believe if society was more accepting of bisexuality perhaps more people would come out as bisexual.

I believe bisexuality does exist. Do I like seeing attractive women make out or have sex? Of course I do. I love the L Word that show is just amazing.  I used to read a lesbian magazine called “On Our Backs” a few years ago before the publication went out of business.

I have only seen two women have sex together once.  I remember when I was in high school it was during Halloween two female friends of mine were having sex and it was late at night.    I recall it was a bachelor apartment and I slept on the couch while the girls were having sex under a blanket and talking to me at the same time.  We were drinking, eating chips, and chatting.  My lesbian friends  didn’t seem to mind that I was there and I was half drunk so I didn’t care anyway.

I have never had sex with a woman before but I have kissed two women before. The first time I kissed a girl was in high school. I remember this  girl invited me to her apartment and her family wasn’t home and we made out. She invited me back to her bedroom and she wanted to get more intimate but I declined.  The second time I kissed a woman was at a bar and I was drunk . I have thought about having sex with a woman though.

Although I am bicurious, I can tell if a member of the opposite sex is attractive or not. I will admit if I see an attractive woman on the bus or subway I will check her out.

I think sexuality is fluid. My cousin is bisexual, she doesn’t believe in labels. She says people shouldn’t be so attached to the whole “gay” and “straight” label. She says people should just explore their sexuality and go with the flow.

I notice that female bisexuality is more palatable then male bisexuality. I think if a woman can be bisexual then a man can also be bisexual. If a man says he is bisexual most people will say the man is in denial about being gay which isn’t always the case. I am sure there are men out there that are truly bisexual.

It appears bisexual men are treated rather unfairly by society as though they are lying about being sexually attracted to both genders. I wonder if male bisexuality will ever considered palatable by society?  Also, some heterosexual men like the fantasy of  having a bisexual girlfriend they don’t view it as a threat. However, some women would never want to date a bisexual man because they few this as a form of weakness or just not socially acceptable.

Where Do You Live?

I notice that I receive a lot of comments from all over the world. I am wondering if you are interested let me know where you are located?